One More Passing Show

I have only ten chapters left (well, nine, actually since this chapter was counted as the tenth) to read before I finished Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff.  This chapter is the ninetieth chapter and serves as a reminder that we don’t live forever; that our time here on this earth is limited; that everything comes and goes; that there is a beginning and an end to every person’s life, to their story; that the curtains will, eventually, fall on our lives.  Which is why this chapter was entitled: One More Passing Show.

And, this is what Richard Carlson has to share with us today:

This is a strategy that I have recently adopted into my own life.  It’s a subtle reminder that everything–the good and the bad, pleasure and pain, approval and disapproval, achievements and mistakes, fame and shame–all come and go.  Everything has a beginning and an ending and that’s the way it’s supposed to be.

Every experience you have ever had is over.  Every thought you’ve ever had, started and finished.  Every emotion and mood you’ve experienced has been replaced by another.  You’ve been happy, sad, jealous, depressed, angry, in love, shamed, proud, and every other conceivable human feeling.  Where did they all go?  The answer is, no one really knows.  All we know is that, eventually, everything disappears into nothingness.  Welcoming this truth into your life is the beginning of a liberating adventure.

Our disappointment comes about in essentially two ways.  When we’re experiencing pleasure we want it to last forever.  It never does.  Or, when we’re experiencing pain, we want it to go away–now.  It usually doesn’t.  Unhappiness is the result of struggling against the natural flow of experience.

It’s enormously helpful to experiment with the awareness that life is just one thing after another.  One present moment followed by another present moment.  When something is happening that we enjoy, know that while it’s wonderful to experience the happiness it brings, it will eventually be replaced by something else, a different type of moment.  If that’s okay with you, you’ll feel peace even when the moment changes.  And if you’re experiencing some type of pain or displeasure, know that this too shall pass.  Keeping this awareness close to your heart is a wonderful way to maintain your perspective, even in the face of adversity.  It’s not always easy, but it is usually helpful.

There is nothing more that I enjoy doing than reading books and writing. I'm kind of a nerd like that, XD. I have been writing for 7 years and am the author of the YA novel "Winged: The Awakening" and "Winged: The Unraveling". Also, a YouTuber dealing with video games and gaming.

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